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Let's start with the basics

Tell us a little about yourself. This helps us find connections that complement your Lifestyle.

Used for nearby matching. Your exact location is never shared.

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Tell us about you

Write freely — our AI reads between the lines to find people who truly align with you.

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Your text is analyzed privately to extract interests, desires, and boundaries. No one sees raw AI analysis — it only powers your matches.

✨ Our AI extracts your interests, desires, and boundaries to power intelligent matching.

🧠 What our AI sees

Your preferences & dealbreakers

Help us filter matches so you only see people who respect what matters most to you.

Couples Single Males Single Females Non-Binary Groups / Polycules
Min 21
Max 55
50 mi
Soft Swap Full Swap Same Room Separate Rooms Voyeurism Exhibitionism Group Play Online Only

🚫 Dealbreakers are taken seriously. Matches that conflict with your limits are automatically excluded.

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Discover Your Desires

After creating your profile, play our card game to explore what excites you. It starts vanilla and gets spicier as you go — and here's the best part: your answers are completely private. Matches can only see kinks you both said yes to.

🔒 Nobody sees your kinks unless they share them

Verification & safety

Your safety is our priority. Verification builds trust and keeps the community real.

We'll send a verification link. Your email is never shown to other members.

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Upload a profile photo

JPG, PNG, or WebP — max 5MB

Profiles with photos get 3x more matches. Your photos are only visible to verified members.

You can change this anytime. Ghost Mode members can still receive AI-curated match suggestions.

Review your profile

Make sure everything looks good. You can always edit later.

The Basics

About You

AI-Detected Profile Insights

Preferences & Dealbreakers

Safety & Verification